Here are some signs that might indicate someone is living with autism, even in adulthood:

1. Social Interactions Can Be Challenging:
   For many adults with autism, social interactions can feel overwhelming. They may struggle with understanding social cues, like body language or tone of voice, which can make conversations feel difficult. They may avoid eye contact, have trouble with small talk, or find it challenging to form and maintain friendships. This doesn’t mean they don’t want to connect—it’s just that social situations often feel complex and draining.

2. Strong, Focused Interests:
   Adults with autism may develop deep, specialized interests in certain subjects or activities. These interests can be a source of joy and fulfillment, but they may also become the center of their focus, sometimes to the exclusion of other topics or activities. Their passion for their interests can be inspiring, and they might be incredibly knowledgeable or skilled in that area.

3. Routine and Predictability Matter:
   Many adults with autism find comfort in routines. Changes in daily schedules or unexpected events can cause stress and anxiety. Whether it’s the way they organize their day, or how they prefer certain tasks to be done, routines provide a sense of stability and predictability. Sudden disruptions might cause frustration or even overwhelm.

4. Sensitivity to Sensory Input:
   Sensory sensitivities are common among adults with autism. They might be highly sensitive to sounds, lights, textures, or smells that others may find tolerable. Everyday experiences like crowded spaces or loud environments might feel intense or painful. This sensitivity can also extend to tastes and physical sensations.

5. Communication Styles May Differ:
   Verbal communication might come across as formal or less fluid, and it can sometimes feel blunt or direct. However, this is simply how the individual processes and expresses information. They may also prefer written communication, where they can take their time to think things through.

6. Difficulty with Empathy (But Not a Lack of Care):
   It’s a common misconception that adults with autism don’t have empathy. In fact, many experience a deep sense of empathy but struggle with understanding or expressing it in ways that others may expect. This might lead to misunderstandings, where their reactions to others’ emotions may seem indifferent or delayed, even though they care deeply.

7. Struggles with Transitions or Change:
   Change can be challenging, whether it’s a new job, a move, or a change in routine. Adults with autism often thrive in familiar environments, and transitions can be a source of anxiety. Being patient with these moments and offering support can make a big difference.

8. Internalizing Stress:
   Many adults with autism experience anxiety, depression, or other mental health challenges, often stemming from social difficulties or the pressures of managing everyday expectations. They may not always express these feelings outwardly but could become withdrawn or anxious.

Every individual with autism is unique, and these signs can manifest in different ways. If any of these traits sound familiar to you or someone you care about, it’s important to approach the situation with understanding and an open heart. Recognizing the signs is the first step in creating a supportive environment, whether that means seeking a diagnosis, understanding the need for accommodations, or simply offering patience and empathy.

By raising awareness and fostering understanding, we can all contribute to creating a more inclusive world for those living with autism.